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Redefining Success For Yourself After Trauma : A Talk With Addis Gonte

November 28, 2023 • Lola Dada-Olley • Episode 7

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In this episode, I speak with Addis Gonte, Non-Profit CEO and Disability Inclusion Advocate. We talk about how a car accident changed his life, resulting in traumatic brain and spinal cord injuries. We also speak on how his life changing accident led him on a new path to founding a non-profit, called Able Mindset, and many lessons learned along the way.

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