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A Later in Life Diagnosis: A Talk with Attorney and Self-Advocate LaNasha Houze

May 02, 2023 • Lola Dada-Olley • Episode 2

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In Season 6, Episode 2 of the Not Your Mama's Autism Podcast, I speak with attorney, self-advocate and former law school classmate, LaNasha Houze. In this episode, LaNasha speaks to how she ended up obtaining her later in life ADHD diagnosis, the subsequent realizations she made when it comes to her neurodivergence and provides some advice to those who wish to know more about this journey.

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