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The Power of Self-Awareness and Self-Acceptance: A Talk with Author and Self-Advocate Lisa Hurley

December 15, 2025 • Lola Dada-Olley • Season 7 • Episode 13

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Summary

This conversation explores the complexities of neurodiversity, particularly autism, within the Caribbean context. Lisa Hurley reflects on her personal experiences growing up in a society that lacks awareness and understanding of neurodivergence. She discusses the cultural perceptions of autism, the challenges faced by individuals who do not fit the stereotypical image of autism, and the need for greater visibility and acceptance.

Takeaways

Cultural perceptions shape the understanding of autism.
There is a lack of awareness about neurodiversity.
Expectations of presentation can exclude many individuals.
Visibility is crucial for acceptance of neurodiversity.
Challenging stereotypes is necessary for broader understanding.
Personal experiences highlight systemic issues in society.

Sound Bites

"I've known from childhood that I was different."
"We're not talking about neurodivergence."
"People who look like us are not even considered."

Where to find Lisa Hurley: The Great Exhale

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